Understanding the Importance of Hiring an Attorney
Are you wondering why you should even hire an attorney to handle your own business? Well, a lot of the time you can handle your own business, but the reason that you hire an attorney is to talk to other people for you. My name is Aaron Grubb. I’m the Tahlequah family attorney at Wirth Law Office.
In this video, we’re going to talk about one of the core aspects of hiring an attorney: representation and advocacy.
The Role of Your Attorney in Advocacy
When you hire an attorney, you’re essentially saying, “I can’t resolve this on my own” — maybe because there’s a lot of emotion involved, maybe the other side is hard to deal with, or maybe you’re not sure what your rights are. That’s where your attorney steps in: to advocate on your behalf, handle communication, and move the case forward.
A big part of that advocacy involves communicating directly with the other party, or, if they have a lawyer, with their attorney.
Professionalism in Legal Representation
Now, here’s something that sometimes surprises people: in a smaller legal community like Oklahoma, many attorneys know each other well. They’ve worked on opposite sides—or even together—on multiple cases over the years. So, if you see your attorney chatting or joking with opposing counsel, it might feel a little unsettling. You might wonder: Are they fighting for me?
But here’s the truth: professionalism matters. Your attorney isn’t there to throw mud or create unnecessary hostility. They’re there to communicate strategically, assert your position, and work toward a resolution in a way that serves your interests.
Being respectful and cooperative with opposing counsel often helps move your case along more efficiently, and that can reduce legal fees and stress.
When to Stand Firm: Your Best Interests First
That said, there are times to dig in and stand firm. If something truly matters to you — custody terms, property division, whatever it may be — your attorney should advocate fiercely when it counts. So don’t be alarmed if things look friendly on the surface. What matters most is the substance of what your attorney is saying behind closed doors — and whether they’re keeping your best interests front and center.
So, if you have any legal issues or, you know, a criminal case or anything that you have trouble with and you want someone else who’s licensed and has been educated about the subject, please call me, Aaron Grubb, the Tahlequah criminal attorney here at Wirth Law Office. We can help.
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